Written by a guy,
“We guys don’t care if you talk to other guys. We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys. But, when you’re sitting next to us and some random guy walks into the toom and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowleding the fact that we’re still here.
We don’t care if a guy calls or texts you but at 2 in the morning, we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m that it can’t wait until the morning.
Also, when we tell you you’re pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/stunning, etc. We freaking mean it. Don’t tell us we’re wrong. We’ll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me.
Don’t be mad when we hold the door open, take advantage of the mood.
Let us pay for you! Don’t ‘feel’ bad. We enjoy doing it. It’s expected. Smile and say ‘Thank you’.
Kiss us when no one’s watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody’s looking, we’ll be more impressed.
You don’t have to get dressed up for us. If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kinf of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her PJ’s or my tshirt and boxers. Not all dolled up.
Don’t take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don’t get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/Media as your bible.
Don’t talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. It’s boring and we don’t care. You have girlfriends for that.
Whatever happened to the words ‘handsome’/’beautiful’ ? I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with ‘Hey Handsome!’ instead of ‘Hey baby’/’stud’/’cutie’/’sexy’ or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand though, I’m not saying I wouldn’t like it either ;)
Girls, I cannot stress this enough: If you aren’t being treated right by a guy, don’t wait for him to change! Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male popluation and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honour your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they’re doing just to look you in the eyes and say ‘I love you’ and actually mean it.
Give the nice guys a chance.
You’ll soon know that the jerks are the ones that don’t agree with this.. “